You are Special and Unique

Remember, how you got to this spot in your life. Remember the hardships you have endure. Remember the things you have accomplish this far. Do Not Compare, your success to others, because all that will do is get you down. It is impossible to measure your uniqueness to others, that's when we begin to fail. We tried to compete with other people and we forget we are all may so different but so  very similar.

I had find myself staring at another woman's picture, seen how skinny they got, and how well they have done, and I have found myself feeling jealous of their success.However, just recently I realized, I need to see how far I have become and how happy i really feel with myself. Not looking at how other's look, and focusing on myself. I lost over 100 pounds in 1 year. I am proud. I went from 300 plus to 185. I went from a size 24/26W to a size 12, smallest since Middle School, and guess what? I am proud of myself.

My advice to you?

Do not look at that 300 pounds lady, that is 130 now... Do not look at that lady that wear size 6 now, Yes be happy for them, but look at your timeline. Look at how far you have come, look at the people that thought you were going to fail, and laugh. Look at your new cute clothes, and smile. Look at how can you cross your legs, and smile. Look at how you can shop on regular stores, and smirk. Who cares if you didn't reach the insanely low goal.... that makes you practically a super model. YOU look fantastic. And the best part, you did it all by yourself.

I AM HAPPY WITH MY FLABBY ARMS, BECAUSE THEY REMIND ME AT HOW FAR I HAVE COME.

I AM HAPPY WITH MY FLABBY TUMMY, BECAUSE IT REMINDS ME OF HOW BIG AND TIGHT IT WAS.

I AM HAPPY WITH MY WRINKLY BUT AND TIGHTS, BECAUSE I CAN NOW FIT IN SKINNY JEANS.

I AM HAPPY WITH MY SAGGY BOOBS, BECAUSE I CAN FIT IN A SMALLER REGULAR BRA FROM VICTORIA SECRET.

BUT OVERALL, I AM HAPPY I LOST OVER 100 POUNDS BECAUSE PEOPLE DIDN'T THINK I COULD DO IT. AND NOW I DON'T HAVE TO SLEEP WITH A MACHINE.